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What they should know. (D-blog week day five)

What they should know. (D-blog week day five)

This week is Diabetes Blog Week (or D-blog week), and each day, I’ll be following a prompt from the lovely Karen over at Bitter-sweet Diabetes. Today’s prompt asks us to share what someone else should know. This was a tough post to write because I think there are many things related to diabetes that I think people should know. But more than what I hope strangers know is what I hope diabetics know. So to you — my dear friends with diabetes… 

You should know that diabetes sucks, but you should also know it’s not as bad as you think. You should know that each day is a chance to do better — have better numbers, make better food choices, exercise more. Each day, we get a do-over. You should know you’re not defined by diabetes, but it’s a big part of who you are. You should know it’s something to embrace, not ignore.

You should know you are special and you can make a difference to others walking in similar shoes. You can be an encourager and a fighter. You should know you are leading by example, whether you realize it. When you’re taking care of yourself and managing diabetes, you should know someone else is watching you. It may be a 6-year-old little girl who likes to ride her bicycle. It may be a mom raising an 8-year-old with diabetes. It may be a teenager struggling to understand and fit in. You should know you have the power to make a positive impact on their lives.

You should know you are strong and you are tough. You can do anything and be anything. Diabetes is invisible. It needs to be monitored, but there is no reason to treat it other than the invisible illness it is. Don’t give it too much credit or too much blame. Don’t use it as an excuse. You should know there are worse things, and you should know this is just a blip on the radar of your life. It seems bigger, but it’s not.

You should know diabetes doesn’t have to stop you from anything, and it doesn’t have to hold you back. Diabetes plays the role you want it to play, so you should know to give it respect, but not let it run the show. You should know how amazing you are and how wonderful your life is. You should know God has a great big plan, and you fit into it perfectly — diabetes and all.

You should know if I can do this, you can do this! And you should know I love you, I am praying for you and I will always be here to encourage you!

Lifelong friends ... because of diabetes.

Happy Mother’s Day!

Happy Mother’s Day!

Blessed doesn’t come close to describing my life. I’m surrounded by loving family and friends, and I couldn’t ask for anything more. So many of those friends are like family, and I love Mother’s Day because I have so many women in my life who are like mothers to me. It’s absolutely wonderful.

My own mother is extraordinary all on her own, but she has this group of friends she’s kept since childhood, and each one is another mother to me. They call and check on me from time to time, they pray for me and they even come visit on occasion. I have lots of friends whose mothers always looked out for me, mothers from my high school days, mothers from my college days and even mothers right here in Huntsville. I’m telling y’all, I am so blessed!

So to all the mothers out there, enjoy today and the appreciation and thanks we all give. To all the mothers in my own life… from Auburn to Huntsville, from Montgomery to Morristown, from North Carolina to Tennessee, from Virginia to Texas, thank you for loving me and for always being there. I thank God every time I remember you. (Phil. 1:3)

And to my own mother (who you’ll hear more about later this week), thank you. You’ve always loved me despite my failures. You’ve always encouraged me and cheered for me along the way. When I fall short or disappoint you, you reach for me with open arms. You are my very best friend, and there’s not a secret in my heart you don’t know. I love you more than a simple blog post can say, and I have never deserved the love you have so freely given. I am proud to be your daughter. Thank you for everything you have done and continue to do for me. Thank you for your never ceasing prayers and thank you for your patience. As an adult, I recognize how much of those two I required. ;) Thank you for loving me just as I am and thank you for accepting me as a free-spirit. Thank you for your constant and continued prayers — so many times, yours are the ones that kept me safe. Thank you loving Jesus and for openly sharing His love with our family. Thank you for everything! I pray one day, to be a mother like you. I love you mom, Happy Mother’s Day!

And Happy Mother’s Day to you!

A wife of noble character, who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life.

She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks. She sees that her trading is profitable, and her lamp does not go out at night. She opens her arms to the poor and extends her hands to the needy. When it snows, she has no fear for her household; for all of them are clothed in scarlet.

She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: “Many women do noble things, but you surpass them all.”

Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Honor her for all that her hands have done, and let her works bring praise at the city gate.

-Taken from Proverbs 31

grace

grace

My life has changed a lot in the past few years, especially within the past year and a half. As I’ve grown closer to God, I am in awe at His grace and mercy over my life. i praise Him for always taking care of me, providing for me and leading me along the path that He knows is best for me. I’m grateful for unanswered prayers, and I’m grateful to be in a season of life where He is my focus — where I am grateful for the opportunity to spend so much time with Him and in His word. It’s taken me a long time to recognize this season of life as a blessing, but that’s exactly what it is. God doesn’t give to us as the world gives, but He gives peace and always has our best interests at heart.

Being a Christian doesn’t make me perfect. I am still a sinner, but I am saved by His grace and redeemed through His blood. I’m not perfect, but I am forgiven. Today, I thank Him for the blessings in my life — especially those that I didn’t realize were blessings until years later. He truly does know best, and His timing is perfect.

I heard this song while driving down the road this week, and it brought tears to my eyes. It summed up my thoughts perfectly and shared what my heart was feeling. When I think about the past and the type of person I was, I’m humbled that I’m not who I used to be. Only God can change a person’s heart like that. I pray I can offer the same mercy and grace to others around me.